Punk Rock Parents: Puppy Heartache

Sunday, November 20, 2016

Puppy Heartache

It has been over 5 years since we have had a dog. About a year ago we thought that maybe we could open our hearts to a new dog. In the last month we have been actively looking on-line. This weekend we went to a few different shelters to see if there was someone that was meant for us. We found an older puggle who was super cute, but then turned super mean when another dog came by. We also saw another pug mix that looked like a Mega-Pug, but in the 5 minutes that we went to look at other dogs, someone else had come by and placed him on hold. 

Today we drove about an hour to the Animal Friends of the Valleys. This place is absolutely gorgeous. It is an amazing facility with a super sweet staff and lots of dogs, cats, even bunnies and birds. We walked through the halls and looked at all the sweet dogs and then we found this guy in room 21. 


A 4 month old pit bull mix they had named Dremil. On of the staff asked if we would like to "meet" him. We did. We so did.


We are looking for a sweet and calm dog and this guy was that. Despite the other dogs barking in the neighboring room he never barked or growled.

He was a sweet little boy and so loving. We fed him treats and I think he took a liking to us too.





We had the staff take him back and we walked through the rest of the shelter. But we came back to this guy and headed up to the front desk to talk adoption.


I filled out the paperwork and headed over to the front desk. As I handed her the paperwork she casually says "They told you that 2 other people are already interested in him". Joey and I looked at each other and our hearts fell. No, no one had told us that. We assumed that he was adoptable.

As we were standing there a man walked in with 3 dogs and let the front desk know that he was there for a meet and greet because he was looking to adopt Dremil. Yup our little guy. I looked over at the girls and Phi looked so sad and Louie was super pissed. She said "But he already has 3 dogs and we don't have any!"  They called for a staff member and it was the same girl who had let us play with the dog. When they told her that this man was here for a meet and greet with Dremil so looked over at us with shock. She was angry because no one had pulled the dogs paperwork from his room so she assumed that he was available. She knew that we were heartbroken and her glance let me know that she felt awful about it. Of course the meet in greet was in a glass room where my kids sat and watched as the puppy they fell in love with met with its most likely new family.

So the chances that Dremil will be ours are slim to none. This guy with the 3 dogs will have to have an unsuccessful meet and greet, or have a successful meet and greet and not pass the yard inspection. Then there is another application after him. If those 2 don't pan out then we have a shot. See very long shot.

We left with a better understanding as to why people buy from breeders or pet shop or Facebook. There is no hoops to jump through and you're not competing for a dog. At a breeder or store we could write a check and have a puppy. Of course we know that it's better to adopt from a shelter but today we left just so disappointed.


1 comment:

  1. Anonymous5:11 PM

    I feel your pain. I decided to adoptfrom a rescue. Just a mutt; nothing special. A cute, Benji-looking mutt. I looked online for months, put in application after application. I have a vet assistant degree and I'm a certified dog trainer and once had show dogs. I, for one reason or another, missed out on 12 dogs. The 13th dog, I drove 1-1/2 hours to get, only to see him and realize that he's probably going to exceed the weight limits here at the condo where I live. I still have him, and I'm trying to decide whether to return him or chance it. I'll get back the adoption fee, but I spent $62 at the vet on him, and ordered him a lot of things from Amazon, that haven't even arrived yet, plus a crate, pee pads, which he doesn't need because I've had him for 2 days and he's house-trained already. He's awesome at only 11 weeks old, but I'm afraid he's going to get too big. He's some sort of wire-haired terrier mix, but they dont know what he's mixed with. THE RESCUE GROUP SHOULD'VE WEIGHED HIM BEFORE THEY TOLD ME I COULD HAVE HIM! I put on the application, that I had weight restrictions where I live! This is on them, but I'm the one that is suffering. He's a great puppy, but I don't know if I can keep him. They said he wouldn't be over 25 lbs., grown. He's 11 weeks old and weighs 12.5 lbs. That's not good!! And, we have already fallen in love with him. He's a big "love bug." This is the rescue's fault!!!

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